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Thứ Tư, 10 tháng 9, 2014

Five Best Jobs For a Stay at Home Mum

Ok, so these might not be the best five jobs for everyone, nor the best five jobs in the universe, but they are handy jobs if you want to earn a little bit of extra cash and you are a stay at home mum.  Some stay at home mums even do these jobs, do them well, AND make quite a decent living from them.  Anything is possible, with a little bit of hard work.
 
They are also great jobs if you just want to have a go at them part time, work around your family commitments and earn yourself a bit of spending money or some extra cash to cover groceries, bills or your makeup habit, (or whatever your obsession might be!)
 
Five that stand out for me are....
Blogging
 
So blogging might not be the most lucrative job, but nowadays the possibilities are endless if you are prepared to work hard at it, keeping in mind that this is not a 'get rich quick' fix.  Some make it and some don't, but there is certainly no harm in trying.  You read everywhere that if you go into blogging for the sole purpose of making money then it will show and you will most likely end up not succeeding.  For a blog to be successful there needs to be passion behind it and this can not shine through to your readers if it exists because of superficial reasons like money.  In my case I blog because I want to practice my writing and photography skills (kind of like riding a bike...must keep peddling), in between doing my magazine articles.  As the magazine is only published quarterly I can go weeks without writing anything, so I like to keep my hand in.  This way I write everyday (or at least try to), and practice a variety of photography styles. 
 
I am also discovering a huge number of other benefits that I know will far outweigh financial gain (if I someday become successful in that way), and these include becoming a part of an incredibly supportive online community and learning new skills.  For example at the moment I am learning how to be my own stylist so I can set up better photo shoots, (as you can probably tell it's still a bit hit and miss!)
 
Party Plan
 
Now I have put my toe in the waters of the party plan world a few times, and although I wasn't particularly good at it (my personality is not really suited...I'm a bit of an introvert), it is a fantastic way for a stay at home mum to earn an income.  Some women achieve massive annual turnovers and recruit lots of other women, become leaders, go on overseas trips for free, earn jewellery and other prizes and are even given company cars. 
 
Like everything all these benefits don't come easily, you have to work at it, but if you are willing and are keen to put yourself out there, these companies are there to back you all the way.  Remember, they want you to succeed.  Your success means more sales for them so it's a win win situation all round.  There is also a great community, with team meetings, conferences and all sorts of support, so you are not alone in your journey, and this is fantastic if you spend the majority of your time home with the kids.
 
Two party plan companies that I have tried, and enjoyed, include The Body Shop at Home, which is exactly like The Body Shop, except it comes to you (!)..and also Intimo, which is a company that sells beautiful lingerie. 
Craft
 
Are you any good at a craft or hobby?  Why not turn that into a business?  So many women do it successfully, and with the internet and online sales you no longer have to rely on attending endless weekend markets...although of course you can still this if you want to...and it is excellent exposure/marketing if you do!
 
You can set up your own website, which need not cost a fortune, in fact you could use a free blogging site to do so if you wished like Wordpress or BlogSpot, although if you wanted to add a Shopping Cart you will need to look at other options.
 
You can also set up your own page on sites like Etsy, or there is also Made It, which is for those who hand make items in Australia.
 
An example of a really successful business is a children's clothing store called Whale Spout.  Created by Kate, a mother of three daughters, she was concerned about clothes that were too 'adult' for children, so decided to create her own.  She has been running her business for a few years now, which is a giant success in itself.
 
Bookkeeping
 
I am not a 'maths head' at all..so this would be a terrible job for me (!), but for many it is a fantastic way to earn a little extra, and for others it can even make them a decent income.  There are bookkeeping courses available, or you could incorporate skills you already have that you used in your former life when you worked full time.  I have a sister-in-law who runs a brilliant accounting practice from home, and the great thing about it is she can take on as much or as little as she wants to suit her.
 
The key to this one would be organisation, and having your own home office would be enormously beneficial.  The ability to be able to shut yourself away from noisy children and other distractions, like the television, would be important, so if you have the space, create a corner that is officially 'Mum's Work Space So Keep Out!!'
Makeup Artist
 
Do you love makeup?  Are you forever buying new products?  Can't go past the makeup counters in department stores without coming away with various streaks of lipstick up your arms??!  Maybe you could try your hand at being a makeup artist.
 
A natural flair for colour, style and, obviously, applying makeup would be a handy talent, but like everything all these skills can be taught.  My older sister is a brilliant makeup artist, doing weddings and fashion makeup, and I remember very well being her 'model' while she attended her makeup course.  (I used to come home with half a face of makeup...it was hilarious...but great fun!)
 
This is a great 'portable' type of job, so once you have the skills, the makeup and a big big carry case (preferably with wheels and a handle), you are set.  Having a website can help, but there are also lots of places you can list your services.  Be prepared to be super busy around 'wedding season', so in the warmer months...so don't expect to have many weekends free.  But the joy of this is going new places, meeting new people, doing something you love, and if it is on the weekend then hopefully your partner can watch the kids.  Check out my brilliant sister's site here and also here at Flawless Hair and Makeup.
 


Anyway, I hope this has given you food for thought, or even sparked a few different ideas of your own.  For those stay at home mums who want to get back into having some form of career there are plenty of options. 
 
Good luck!



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Thứ Sáu, 22 tháng 8, 2014

How to Stay Motivated as a Stay at Home Mum

I read a lot of different lifestyle blogs, following along with the lives of some gorgeous 20-something year olds who are out and about doing and seeing wonderful things, wearing stylish clothes and all knowing how to do their makeup properly.
 
I, on the other hand, am beyond this stage of my life, with four kids, barely enough time to brush my hair, and I walked through the doors into forty-dom earlier this year.  Blergh.
 
While enjoying following along with these lovely and talented young ladies, and their stories of their interesting adventures, I often wonder what it is I can really bring to my blog and to you to keep you captivated, and perhaps head back this way for a regular fix.
 
This is when I thought a little post on sharing some advice about beating the monotony of being a mum at home, and trying to keep your identity while chasing after kids, might be useful.  Not just to those other mummy's out there, but also for those who intend to one day fill their world with children. (and don't think it will never be you because trust me...it sneaks up on you!)
 
By no means am I trying to put anyone off kids, I certainly love my own and don't have any regrets, but I do know how trying it can be sometimes, and that feeling trapped, angry, resentful or just down right bored are a completely normal range of emotions.  There is also the guilt that comes with feeling this way, which makes it even worse. Throw in some hormones for added good measure and you can end up a downright mess.  Being a stay at home mum is hard.
 
Anyway, here I have put together a little list of what I have discovered are useful tips for surviving the Mummy gig:
 
 
Weight Control
 
Put a padlock on your pantry, then hang the key up high...(no, I'm serious) where you need to drag a chair over to get to it.  Perhaps put a few other obstacles in your way too.  Anything to stop the unnecessary grazing or boredom eating.  It is such a trap and can stack on the weight.  I only need to just look at food and I put it on.  Maybe even go as far as doing your grocery shopping online so you can stick to your shopping list and not be tempted to throw those extra Tim Tams and chocolate in your trolley.
 
Exercise
 
Personally I need to swim at least every second or third day, otherwise my back plays up, although when my husband is away shearing this is often not possible.  If you have the time, and the funds, joining a gym, going to an exercise class, or even a dance class, is a great idea because it gets you out (a break from the kids), gives you time to yourself and helps keep you fit.  Obviously. 

 
I do struggle with having someone to watch my kids some of the time, so I have a few yoga and Pilates DVD's, and weirdly, a tap dancing DVD filmed by a woman that looks a little like an older and wrinklier version of Ginger Rogers. 
 





Social Life
 
This is important, particularly if your husband works long hours (like mine...which unfortunately includes weekends).  Keeping in touch with friends is not only vital for your sanity but also helps keep you in touch with the world beyond your kids.  Talking about things, other than just what little Junior did or didn't do, will also make you feel more human.  It does also help to have a friend who doesn't have kids at all.  They will help keep you grounded, and if you're lucky, will take you out every so often, prop you up at a bar, and pour drinks in to you.
 
Internet Use
 
You know how those in the know are always going on about the effect of technology on children and how limiting their online time is something you should be extra Sergeant Major Grumpy about?  Well so should the same rules apply to yourself.  If you find yourself incessantly stalking others on Facebook or Crushing Candy all day long, or have a major relationship with your smart phone, things could be getting a little out of hand.  Internet usage is great, social media is fantastic, but too much of a good things is just...well..too much.  I also find that the kids start climbing the walls when the computer goes on ...take them out to the park instead and benefit from the fresh air.
 
 
Motivation
 
I do struggle to be the perfect 1950s version of a stay at home mum.  I definitely don't feel satisfied with just the kinder run, changing nappies and cleaning up tinned spaghetti off the floor.  Of course being a mum is way more than that, and it is an extremely rewarding job, but like everything, it has its moments.  For some life as a S.A.H.M is perfect, everything they could ever want, which is great.  I admire anyone who has this much dedication and patience (something I have very little of).  For others, (me included) we need another outlet and this could include working part time, or even full time, working from home, having a hobby or favourite craft to indulge in, or even doing something like volunteering.
 
I have my job as a writer and photographer for a magazine, and there is also this blog.  All of this I love.  It gives me a purpose, other than caring for kids and cleaning the house, but more importantly it makes me happy and keeps me motivated.  If you feel you are lacking a little motivation, and getting a little narky, think about how YOU can make the difference in your own life.
 
I know this has been a longer post but I guess it is a really big topic.  As a follow up I will have a look at what sort of work is perfect for the stay at home mum.  In the meantime, it's a gorgeous day today, Spring is on  the way, so I'm switching off the computer to go and enjoy the outdoors!


 
 
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